I was going to post about Ridge's "punishment" later but I had to do it tonight so I'd have this on record. We asked him to do a small service every day and we are asking him to do something different each day but as a last resort he can write a nice note to someone. He is supposed to do this for a month and one of us asks him about it before bed. This isn't coming very naturally to him even though he can be a sweet boy. Just thinking about doing it on purpose is making it hard. Tonight he wrote a note to me and it was just what I needed.